The Latest today is that she wants more space to be able to find herself again as what we are currently doing is not working.
Every word is script.
Although the H usually hears this statement earlier, it sounds very much like she has not disconnected from OM.
If you decide you want to separate for you to have distance from her, that's one thing. But to think you are giving her space and time to find herself? Please!
She isn't being completely honest with you. I would tell you not to give up your home to stay somewhere else, while she enjoys the comfort of home and continues playing hot & single.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!