BTW, it's up to her to provide confirmation that the A is over. I requested my W send the OM a message that it was over while in my presence. Then monitored. Your monitoring is for your use only. She doesn't need to know what you know or how you got it.
However, some here believe it best to stop monitoring because it will drive you crazy (it can) and instead focus on you because monitoring is focusing on her.

Last edited by mvgfwd2; 02/26/15 08:56 PM.

Me:49 W:45
M:19 T:22
EA confirmed and ended 8/2014
S:19,17 D:9,5