To Pursue or Not

[Arcola]

Hey MrBond and DaddyLongShanks thanks for the replies. Ive pretty much been trying to carry on this way.

I go to lunch today and while I'm standing in line waiting on my sandwich to be made my W walks in with another guy. She didn't even notice I was there until she looked up. We were right beside each other. This guy isn’t original OM, but may very well be turning into an OM. I heard of him from a friend that works at same place as wife and also caught some dialogue on him when I had full snoop access to W's text messages. So W introduces me to this guy and I make small talk because I learn he's the little brother of a guy W and I know. I also talk to W about food items I had in a bag because D9 was wanting something specific for breakfast this morning.

After the small talk, I stop talking to them and turn to face the sandwich maker as my sandwich is almost up. So for about 3 - 5 minutes Im not talking to either of them or looking their direction and I guess they were having some convo being that they did come there together. Once my sandwich is finally done I get it and walk around to where W is in line and say see you later, take it easy and look her dead in the eyes. I know my appearance wasn’t happy go lucky, it was more agitated. She says okay, bye see you later (Im not exactly sure what she said, but she said bye one way or the other)

When I go out to my car Im looking for W's car to see if they came in hers. They didn't. I doubt it would have made any difference on how I feel even if I saw her car.

Lastly, W sends me an email when she gets back to work. Nothing about our encounter at the sandwich place. She's just asking about this evening and picking up the kids, her second job, and what house we decided for soon to be one year S birthday.

On the birthday note, I wonder why she even asks me. I could have had a say in the theme of S birthday, but she usually takes the lead on that stuff and she is the social butterfly of us. Just venting...

So did I handle the encounter in the sandwich shop okay? Should I have done something different.