I guess my point is to stop worrying about him, he made his plans you made yours. Their are consequences to every decision we make in life, it is hard enough worrying about ourselves, dont further your burden worrying about him too.
Ah ok I see. I think I am finally not worrying about him in this case, I realised that I almost always *do* alter my plans around him, like in the past I would have not cooked a meal I wanted simply because I knew he wanted it too but he wasn't around. So I would have waited for him to make this meal. And this does not make for a healthy relationship, whether in the end I end up with him or someone else. So, I'm not taking his plans into consideration, and making this meal for me, because I want it.
Me 28 / H 28 M 1 / T 2.5 BOMB 12-3-14 "I don't feel like myself any more" Still living together, separate rooms.
I think I am finally not worrying about him in this case, I realised that I almost always *do* alter my plans around him, like in the past I would have not cooked a meal I wanted simply because I knew he wanted it too but he wasn't around. So I would have waited for him to make this meal. And this does not make for a healthy relationship, whether in the end I end up with him or someone else. So, I'm not taking his plans into consideration, and making this meal for me, because I want it. 