I agree -- it is a trap... Not going to fall for it... If I do go out, i am planning to say I'm just going out with "some friends" and make it sound like a group even if it's really only one or two friends. And, of course, give no other details or specifics...
The thought of even trying to date anyone right now makes my stomach turn... It's just not where my heart and mind are right now... If anything, I'd really just like some time completely alone for a little while. I don't even think I would have the mental and emotional energy to even date my W right now if she did have a complete change of heart... This whole MLC thing has just wiped me out, and I can only imagine the storm going on inside of her head, heart, and soul.
Me 48, Her 50 (Same-Sex Couple) 3 Children Together: 9.5 years before BD BD: Week of 10/27/14 ExW started EA w OW 9/2014 ExW married OW 12/2015
