Legal S doesn't sound like a bad option? That's what I'm hoping me and H will do - except over there, it isn't a legal process - although the S agreement carries significant 'weight' with the courts in a any future D process.
Sorry it's a tough day - you'll get back on an even keel - but that just takes a little while after stressful things like 'talks' happen.
Take care (())
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus