Breathe .... remember dude is in a constant spin cycle and feeling pretty lost, what to hurt people do? Yup they hurt people. I would think his critiques are a teenage attempt to feel better about himself, take it at that and dont give it any head space.
To answer your question on my thread... The W has in the past here and there taken her shots, however not that I want to make parenting a competition... if it were she knows that she better bring her A game and keep it there for a long time. Not that I am parent of the year but I coach every single sport S has been involved in, I pick him up every day, I take him to the medical apts (She can not handle the stress this brings) ... when S is upset its me he talks to and wants. Not that its W's fault to be honest, alot of this MLC thing has to do with her own childhood, her parents ... good people.. but very cold Catholics and there is no love shown what so ever ... which is a 180 from how I was raised.
My advice ... just consider it spew ... he left, so he is trying to somehow prove to himself he was in the right ... and from what I have gathered about you from your posts he is going to be hard pressed to justify his actions so its going to be the petty things like how you do homework
