Here is my feeling,

I think you should speak with ACTIONS and not words.

Part of my opening post tells you to believe nothing she says and 1/2 of what she does.
Well I can turn that around to her and tell her the same thing.
She believes none of what YOU say and half of what YOU do.

So try to let your ACTIONS speak for what you want to communicate.
It will be much more effective.

Me-70, D37,S36