Hey Gg, Crazy days for you! You seem to be taking the break in in stride though so I'll assume it wasn't a big deal and/or you are just super mellow these days!
I presume you mean the Non-Violent Communication links? If you search "nvc session #1" on Youtube you'll find the 3hr video. I don't want to post the link in case I get pulled up by the moderators!
H 37 Me 36 Together 15 years Married 5 years No kids BD Apr 2014 H moved out 2 Jun 2014
Confused bear today so not tracking too well (suspect thats my frazzled brain more than your posts) glad you're sounding a little more upbeat now though.
Edz
M:44, W:46, S:10 M 13 years, T 15 BD:23/7/2014 W/S Moved to MIL: 23/7/2014 My new place: 21/11/2014 W/S back to flat 22/11/2014 W coming closer, talking 4/2015 Piecing 5/2015 Moving in again 6/2015
I was super upbeat, but then that show knocked me for a huge a$$ 6.
Wow, the ic said things would trigger me. That woman was me, so me its like it was me! Needless to say I freaked.
Lots of things I'm running scared on. The cute dude, mmmm its on the back burner, that's my gut instinct talking, I noted I'm making excuses again.
Lots I cannot do, yet, I think I'm fine but today far far from it.
There are a couple of things I have decided about needs. At this time, it's all a big swirling mess, I cannot decide what I want and what I need. Some days existing is tiring.
It's bed time. I think this will be a long and very bumpy road, even tho it's h choice it's hardly going to be easy.
M 46 h54 Both married before T 11y Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads! Ms 18 hs 26
Absolutely right about the existing is tiring bit. Seems it comes in waves at times. I've just been hit by one this week. Still want w back as my my goal but not as we were just before bd, how we can be, her choice though.
Sounds like you have quite a bit going on in the spin dryer of the noodle today. Sending you positive vibes, up to you if a hug helps too
Take it easy matey, have a good night.
Edz
M:44, W:46, S:10 M 13 years, T 15 BD:23/7/2014 W/S Moved to MIL: 23/7/2014 My new place: 21/11/2014 W/S back to flat 22/11/2014 W coming closer, talking 4/2015 Piecing 5/2015 Moving in again 6/2015