So I suppose that gives me 30 or so days. I presume in her head, the divorce is all set when she leaves. If she wants to sit down and start the do it yourself divorce forms do I put her off? Or go along for the ride and let her drive?
That is a decision you have to make. Some choose to give her what she asked for, while others would delay the process. I don't know that buying more times helps, but if you feel it would, then do it. As for the papers, all I will say is if you try to bluff her, it may backfire.......or it could cool her heels about wanting it so fast.
Hard decision to make.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
