W talked to me. She didn't have much to say. Just wanted to check in on me and us. She wants to move forward with our separation as expected.
When the greencard is done she wants to soon physically separate, do separate bank accounts and legally separate.

Sounds like she is still in a rush moving things forward, whatever the reason is. I resisted asking about OM, guess this is non of my business or is it legitimate to ask why there is such a rush.
I held myself very well in the conversation. It was the most serious conversation we had in a long time, I listened very well and validated. But she seems very clear minded and serious about her plans. She "apologized" for rushing into M with me and hurting me now.

This seems so seriously over. For one reason, our marriage was not built on solid ground and was short. Sry for the negativity. The german realist is coming through.
Oh well, tomorrow is another day! A good one, right? Yes!


Me 32 (German) Wife 28
T 3yrs M 2yrs
Moved to US for W
No kids
BD 6/2014
In house separation
Confirmed EA 1/2015
(ongoing since BD)
OM not ready
Real D talk started 1/27/15