Wow Lou! How exciting for the next chapter of life:-)

I'm sorry you have been sad. It is completely normal and Bea gave such an accurate description of what they can do. I'll be honest-I never really think about whether xh is having a good time. A) I don't really care and B) my priorities are my little people. However, I do think for many, they want to maintain some emotional connection to us. It's difficult to describe. I also think for many, no matter how smoothly paved the road is, they struggle with admitting their feelings, whether they are good, bad, or indifferent.

How nice of you to say goodbye to your brother and partner. Sadly, some people just are the way they are. It's not a reflection of you but rather them.

Have fun in Cardiff! I think you are doing great and props to you for embracing so much change with an open mind. Be kind to yourself.


3 kids
BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. )
Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style
D final 9-9-14
"Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer