Yes, I agree let's see how my absence these next few days might change her attitude.

She has said that she wants the divorce, she's not in love with me anymore, has feelings for OM, can't bear to be with me because of the guilt she feels, and wanted to start the paperwork, but again last night said maybe she wouldn't move till April 1st. So I suppose that gives me 30 or so days. I presume in her head, the divorce is all set when she leaves. If she wants to sit down and start the do it yourself divorce forms do I put her off? Or go along for the ride and let her drive?


Me 41 Wife 38
T20 M13
S8 D3
Bomb 1/26/15
A confirmed 2/19/15