...Snooping has its place and purpose, however once that purpose has been met, you have an answer or insight...continued snooping is sort of like sticking a fork into the wall socket again and a again and again.
Now...maybe you enjoy that, in which case might I recommend 50 Shades of Grey, but if not, no reason to do that to yourself until you need to verify intentions later.
Thanks Jack. I know, I know. Stop hurting myself, I have the information I was looking for.
And no, I do not enjoy that sorta thing. W and I are back to having no contact with each other. I am not looking forward to the following weekend's funeral service for my mother-in-law. It will be especially hard on her and the kids.