Affair Over but Stuck

[Hurt06]

Does anyone have experience with this?

Am I creating problems within the reconciliation process?

Anytime there is unaccounted for time during the day...or anytime my wife starts acting nervous by talking a lot to talking or to quickly which in the past has indicated she is lying or covering something I become very suspicious that she has had contact or has seen the OM.

This usually happens after her cell phone has died or some other random excuse and cannot be reached. Things just do not seem to "add up"

I am puzzled by all this, I am moving on with GAL but cannot help but hope that there is some hope for us.

any insight or experience? I do not let her know I am suspicious!