Has this man had A's with his subornates in the past, and his W just turns her head to not see?

I do not know. But over the years the W has told me of many As that have gone on, but none involving him.

Would you be telling her, hoping she would apply enough pressure on him to fix the problem? Potentially.


What is the real motive here? Not sure, I feel obligated to tell her I guess. I'm questioning myself for my own motivation, and think it may just be creeping anger/retaliation.





So out of curiosity I went through our state's self filing paperwork out of curiosity for no fault divorce completed the docs and printed them, it didn't take too long but I didn't complete a schedule of personal property. Would it be a hell of an alpha move to present them to her? Give her the reality that she desires to her? Though we agreed to do it together?



Last edited by phunguy; 02/25/15 09:19 PM.
Me 41 Wife 38
T20 M13
S8 D3
Bomb 1/26/15
A confirmed 2/19/15