Based on her actions would it be more likely that she has a hormone imbalance or is grieving from loss of the OM and the fantasy of the love that they had?
Did you even read my last post?
Sandi
Yes, I did read your post and thank you so much for sharing such personal insight!
I know that if it IS the hormone imbalance its still no excuse.
Its the lying that gets under my skin.
There are so many ways she could still be in contact with the OM for all I know she has another prepaid cell somewhere. After all, she hid the other cell right under my nose for months and lied about ever having it. The ONLY reason I found out was a caught her on it in the car by accident. Now that I found the other cell I find chargers all over the house and cars in various places. The OM was refilling it for her so I would not see the money spent on the refill. Then theres Whatapp, FaceBook and a bazillion other ways to communicate. I had already found fake Skype names, alternate email accounts exc, all this could still be going on in other forms. Since she has an amazing history of lying extensively about it she has no credibility in anything she says.
So there is no way for me to positively confirm that she has stopped the relationship. I can only go on her word and her actions. We already know that we believe nothing she says and only half what she does. So that leaves me with a half hearted effort at best.
I guess this has actually helped me to realize that she is not in fact trying to reconcile and is most likely still talking or seeing the OM and a the very least grieving for the lost love that she so clearly communicated to him. She does disappear and claims her cell phone died a lot. The OM lives out of State but has visited here often and for all I know still does.
What do you guys think?
M44 H37 D13 S8 S6 Married 14 W is stay at home mom ILYBNIWY:9-28-14 A started 04/2014 OM confirm 11/24/2014 Admit PA 01/05/2015 09/11/2015 W file for D and wants the moon
