No, you are not wrong. Look, there are times you simply can't win with a WW. She didn't get back what she sought, so her claws came out.
I just said this in another post, but will say it again. Guilt is the number one tool the WAW uses to dig at her H. She knows you better than anyone, and knows exactly how to push your buttons.
My suggestion is not to respond to any more text or calls today. Just leave it be.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!