I know that, but she wants to "talk". What am I gonna do? Sit there and say nothing? She will think I'm an immature fool who has nothing to respond. So how should I react? I don't wanna do grand pronouncements, just a sincere apology and appreciation and assuring I won't pressure her anymore. All backed up by continuing what I'm doing right now anyway.
She will expect cooperation to find solutions in our living situation eventually. I either shut up and she thinks I'm still imature or I cooperate but then I validate and help her with the separation, the one I ultimately don't want but there's nothing I can do, but I don't want to make it easier for her and help her to D me. Get it?
Last edited by Complex; 02/25/1508:17 PM.
Me 32 (German) Wife 28 T 3yrs M 2yrs Moved to US for W No kids BD 6/2014 In house separation Confirmed EA 1/2015 (ongoing since BD) OM not ready Real D talk started 1/27/15