I know that, but she wants to "talk". What am I gonna do? Sit there and say nothing?
She will think I'm an immature fool who has nothing to respond.
So how should I react? I don't wanna do grand pronouncements, just a sincere apology and appreciation and assuring I won't pressure her anymore. All backed up by continuing what I'm doing right now anyway.

She will expect cooperation to find solutions in our living situation eventually. I either shut up and she thinks I'm still imature or I cooperate but then I validate and help her with the separation, the one I ultimately don't want but there's nothing I can do, but I don't want to make it easier for her and help her to D me.
Get it?

Last edited by Complex; 02/25/15 08:17 PM.

Me 32 (German) Wife 28
T 3yrs M 2yrs
Moved to US for W
No kids
BD 6/2014
In house separation
Confirmed EA 1/2015
(ongoing since BD)
OM not ready
Real D talk started 1/27/15