I've got an IC appt tomorrow and I think there is a few things I want to bring up there around all of this.

The kids are all tucked up in bed. We had a fairly unspectacular day but thats fine. I couldn't really say what we did or where the time went but whatever we did I'm shattered now

After tonight I don't have them for over a week (schedule adjustment for a work commitment) which isn't ideal but is one of those things.

Had a brief text exchange with STBXW last night just confirming the schedule changes (initiated by her). All very functional and tone was hard to interpret. We agreed all this ages ago and confirmed it a couple of weeks ago, so I did get curious (only in my head) as to what made her think of it when its not until next Tuesday - my immediate thoughts went to her making plans with OM which still bothers me more than it should.

Anyways chores to do, so on with those


Both mid 30s, 2 young kids
BD 7sep14
XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1
D paperwork in progress