25yearsmlc, Thank you for your advice i was thinking the same thing about her tuning me out, I can always tell when that switch clicks. I have read the book twice now and i am still confused about 180. the reason being that we do not have much of a interaction and the things i was doing with W i do not do anymore. I.E. aruge, snoop, blame (when we actually talk that is), I now validate. Can you give me an example of how i can 180 in regards to W while we are sep. and not really talking. I am smiling when i see her now, i am now cordial. thank you again.
