I was getting ready when H got back and he wandered in and out of the bathroom a few times staring at me doing my makeup (probably a shock as I don't normally wear much makeup), and we had this convo:
H: Do you have dinner plans tonight? Me: yes. H: oh, you're going out? Me: yeah, just getting ready. H: where? Me: T (not intentional as my friend chose the restaurant but it happens to be the place we went on our first date) H: oh ok, well I guess I'll make that curry. Me: cool. H: do you want me to make enough for you for lunch tomorrow? Me: that would be cool if you don't mind. H: Ok. (Mumbling in the kitchen) do we have potatoes? Carrots? Those are nice shoes!
My heels of course.
I went into the kitchen to grab a snack and told H a few jokes while I ate. I also think I may have accidentally excited him.
He was asking if I need a belt with my new jeans or if they don't need it, and I flashed my stomach and said "no they fit perfectly, see?" Didn't mean to excite but I think he may have enjoyed that.
Then he asked "oh if you get back late do you want me to wake you up at a certain time in the morning?" I said: "yeah I don't know when I'll be back. Might be quite late. But yes please wake me up tomorrow."
I did my hip swish and left.
Me 28 / H 28 M 1 / T 2.5 BOMB 12-3-14 "I don't feel like myself any more" Still living together, separate rooms.
I'm bad at the quote thing but re dating vs marriage, it may help to think of your sitch as fluid, it's not one or the other right now in terms of comparison. You're still officially fired smile
I'd guess dating bc until he says he wants in the R, that's the comparable stage to look back upon for what worked then in terms if re-attraction. Some days you'll have a very M vibe I'd guess, and if you're going with the flow, you'll respond in kind, in the as-if, easy does it sense.
So good to hear you doing well!
Zelda, that makes sense. I'll have a little think some more on what worked in the dating stage, I think mainly it was lighthearted and fun, lots of activities and a lot of teasing each other.
Me 28 / H 28 M 1 / T 2.5 BOMB 12-3-14 "I don't feel like myself any more" Still living together, separate rooms.
