Bea, Yes, things have "shifted". You aren't responding to his odd behavior and he does sense that. You've detached to the point that nothing surprises you (really) and you keep on moving on w/o skipping a beat. He does know that something's changed about you and he's doing so "wooing" to see if he hook you back into his life.
I think you've got a very good handle on your situation and it's going to be very interesting in the months ahead to see what he does.
I do hope you are feeling better.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
