Hi Vdubber, just my pennies worth, of course send her well wishes, the womans having skin cancer removed ! Obviously I don't know what size or depth of the mole ? but I had a few removed years back off my face and I still bear some scars and it's not nice. Also once it's removed she will be waiting on hte results.
Also if you do decide to meet up, all the better you look good / better and , again , just my thoughts but unless she is a very cold hearted lady she will always question her choices, we all do. My W is also very determined and stubborn but she has surprised me with some of the things she says and has obviously been thinking about.
