V's idea of a donation is also nice. We planted a tree in memory of one of H's relatives and received a little certificate, which we sent to his widow. The forest in question was in an area that this guy used to love, so there was a nice link there too..
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
