Regarding the greencard: I thought I'll procrastinate on purpose to buy myself time before the big D is coming. But you might be right, a month more or less probably won't change anything in my sitch but I need to show her my maturity.

What do you think about the talk she wants to have tonight? Are there any key messages I should think about or mostly just listen to what she said, agree and let her go? I don't want to talk too much or say something she could interpret wrong. And I'm scared I'll get too nervous.
Thanks

Me 32 (German) Wife 28
T 3yrs M 2yrs
Moved to US for W
No kids
BD 6/2014
In house separation
Confirmed EA 1/2015
(ongoing since BD)
OM not ready
Real D talk started 1/27/15