So W text me this morning "GMorning". I wait 20 minutes and text back "Morning". She texts back that she doesn't know what tax information I need. I respond I need her W2 from work and the mortgage interest statement for the house she lives in. She says ok. She then says she would like to meet me for coffee thithis weekend if I can.

Again, I am nervous about meeting with her as she is clearly with OM now and will probably push me for D. I have no interest in being her friend while she is in another relationship and I've made this clear to her previously.

So the big question...do I agree to meet with her? I know this is my decision but I'm not ready to talk D with her if that is her desire.

And I really focused and prayed today to not think about her....30 minutes later she texts me. I must be cursed.


M: 44 W: 45
Married 26
Together 28
D: 22, S: 18, S: 9, D: 7
S: 12/2013, seperate houses
OM revealed first 10/2013, stopped seeing him
OM revealed 1/2015, been going on for quite some time