I am also doing a program that helps me to realize and work on the things I have done that have hurt my wife in the past. I am working on it on a daily basis and being patient. It is helping me to learn patience. Yesterday one of my tasks was to admit my wrongs to my wife and tell her I am sorry and ask for forgiveness. It was a very hard thing to do. But I sat her down and read her what I had wrote. She cried a little, but smiled and gave me a big hug when I was finished and said we both have things to work on. It felt really good for me to get that out. I know that I am doing all this for myself. I am learning about things from that program and this forum and Divorce Remedy.
Me:44 EXW 44 Wonderful Children M11, T14 BD 6/14 OM Confirmed Divorce Final 2/25/16 "It works if you work it!"