Bea, What types of things did he do to impress you when you first met and began to date? I know it's been a while, but going back to that particular time may give you some clues as to what's going on w/him at this time. From what you've posted, it's almost like he's trying to get your attention and win you over.
Yes, he's still out to lunch...but he may very well be trying to relive that particular time and is trying to wake up, but he's still caught in the time warp.
Don't be surprised if he continues to step up his game w/flowers and little token gifts.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
