Gogofo - Learning to go dark

[gogofo]

Reading some advice on other people's situations, this is where I need to do a lot of detachment work:

* Ability to maintain an emotional bond of love, concern and caring, without the negative results of rescuing, enabling, fixing, demanding or controlling.

I do care about her, but need to separate this emotion from my Mr. Fix-it mentality. I have not wanted to try and help her recently, but I still find myself wanting to fix the situation.