Yep, Toots has it right.

I'd suggest reading the "Boundaries" thread on the top of the Newcomers forum, and also the excellent book by the same name, by Cloud & Townsend.

M57 W 57; D30 D28 S24 S20 GD7 GD2 GD1 GD5m GD1m
BD 5/07; W's affair 5/07-8/07

At the end of every hard-earned day, people gotta find some reason to believe. (Bruce Springsteen)