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Thanks V - how does this option right over asset equivalence work then?

Does that mean I could 'gain' some 'control' in respect of other assets we have?

I know I have to agree in order for the MH to be sold already. As for H's redundancy settlement, I know that an 'agreement' exists, so I suspect H was offered a better 'deal' than statutory redundancy in order to waive some rights. But, he was only there for 3 years - maybe a bit less, so it may not be a huge payout - however his salary was high (six figure)...but in the scheme of our overall assets, I suspect it will be minor.

I wonder if I'm best just to send a brief email to him at this stage?

Dear H, thanks for your recent emails and I hope you had a lovely birthday.

I've thought some more about your suggestion to sell the house in X. I agree it's time for us to start considering what to do here.

From my point of view, I'm willing for us to sell the house, but only if this is done as part of us fully considering and separating our finances.

If you want us to go ahead on this basis, let me know, and we can take things from there.

Toots

I think my options at this stage are - do nothing, and let him follow things up with me if he wants us to proceed - or send the above email and get the ball rolling.

Any thoughts?