The bigger issue becomes is she getting treatment and is she getting good treatment. So so many bad terrible therapists. Especially when someone is having a breakdown and the therapist doesn't recognize it.
I will pray for your w recovery from her very real disease
I think she is seeing a very good therapist -- but he can only help her as much as she is being honest with him about what is going on... and up until recently she wasn't being completely honest with him about everything. I still don't think she's telling him everything -- and I don't think she is aware enough to be able to tell him everything... She's still looking at her problems as external problems and not internal problems... Until she starts to look internally, forward progress will be very slow.
Thank you so much for the prayers.
Me 48, Her 50 (Same-Sex Couple) 3 Children Together: 9.5 years before BD BD: Week of 10/27/14 ExW started EA w OW 9/2014 ExW married OW 12/2015
