I haven't read through your sitch yet Joe but I just wanted to say hi and offer some support. You must do what works for you Joe. In a lot of cases, detachment is the key to ride out the storm during the initial maelstrom. It's possible to feel a sense of detachment in you whilst still doing the things you feel are working. It's so important to monitor the results.
Originally Posted By: Joe406
I have been working to be a better husband and work on the things my wife said was missing in our marriage
This is good in itself Joe and it sounds like you have some idea as to what to work on (things your W has told you. Just be aware that any changes you make need to be for YOU. If they are to placate your W or YOU don't believe in the changes but make them anyway in the hope that it'll smooth things over, your W will see through it.
Good luck, and keep posting.
Barry.
Me 40 W 38 T 23 M 21 S21 S19 D16 S14 BD 19/12/2014 D mentioned 27/2/2015. I filed 08/04/2015, D Absolute 04/11/2015
