Sounds like you're doing pretty well. Just one question - how do you 'know' your W isn't in contact with OM? Do you have intel? Presumably they have contact at work still?
As for telling OM's W about the affair. I think vet advice would be needed on that one.
Good news about the running club....have fun!
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
