Wife left me three weeks ago!

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Yesterday my wife thought I had been to the solicitors because I decided to dress in a suit, something I never normally do. I picked the kids up from her parents', took them to school, and then later on picked them up from school meeting my wife there and took them back to her parents'. My wife was talking to another parent at the school. I went over, said hello, she kind of scowled at me, and so minute later I decided to stand apart and use my mobile. When the kids came out my son was a little naugjty, wanting to hold his mum's hand and not doing what I said. My wife and I didn't speak all the way back to hee parents' in the car although I was very upbeat with the children. I reasoned I would not initiate conversation. About an hour at her parents' with kids and then time for home. The whole time my wife was out the room and seemed to be mainly on the phone to someone. She kept out the way in the garden so I guess it was someone she didn't want me to know about. At the end of my time there she let me out the house and got annoyed I wasn't communicating, said we need to for the kids' sake. She said I was a liar and that she didn't care anymore. I think her face and tone belied what she was saying though. I think maybe even a day of little contact, dressing differently and a change in attitude has had an affect. I'm not sure whether that's a good or bad one though. I want her to sense the loss I do but I don't want to alienate her. It's a difficult balancing act. DB book came yesterday. I've read the first 70 pages. Very interesting stuff. I've scanned through the second half and can't wait to put into action some of the little things I've read...not yet though...need ti finish the book and reflect forba day or so I think on what is best way to go about things.