So W got home today firat showing me pictures of her friends baby which was born today. She was excited and friendly.

But then she reminded me of getting my greencard stuff done. I still have 1.5 month to turn it in. She just wants to get this done she said wheh I asked why or if there's a rush? Then she said she'd like to talk to me about some things tomorrow night, not tonight because I was busy doing school stuff.
I asked what it's about and she said "about YOUR situation, and what's going on".

I have to be honest it instantly makes me nervous and I'm pretty scared about the conversation. Should I even get into the conversation or find an excuse to get out of its way? I don't want to do R talk right now. I have no idea what she wants to say. Maybe she wants to separate physically or so, talk about money or other concerns. What should I do?
If I talk to her what should I say? I want to keep my part as short as possible, not say anything wrong. I rather listen to what she has to say. But I'm also sure she will be testing my maturity and responsibily, if I'm capable of doing my own thing and let her go etc. She probably wants to know where I'm at right now.
Mostly I'm afraid that I'll be too nervous and she'll catch that and interpret it wrong...
Thanks for any advice.


Me 32 (German) Wife 28
T 3yrs M 2yrs
Moved to US for W
No kids
BD 6/2014
In house separation
Confirmed EA 1/2015
(ongoing since BD)
OM not ready
Real D talk started 1/27/15