Train, you're so warm you melted the rest of the ice on my driveway.
She is very much accustomed to calling the shots. From what she's told me, OM made her feel beautiful and appreciated during a time when i was wrapped up in my own issues, and she felt dirty from how my parents had treated her. He also made her laugh when things felt so serious and heavy at home. He validated her as a woman during a time that she felt taken for granted.
One thing I've been working on is injecting humor into our lives when possible. Contrived things like standup comedy doesnt work for her, but I make sure to tell her about funny things that happen at work and take note of the things that make us both laugh at home. Interestingly enough, when she says that we never laugh anymore, I'll point out times that we have had good laughs, some only a few hours before, and she'll dismiss them. Maybe it's because she's being told something instead of figuring it out herself.
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Ex Rzrback Me 43 Her 44 D11, D15 T21, M19 BD 9/9/2014 Piecing
Sometimes if you want to see a change for the better, you have to take things into your own hands - Clint Eastwood
