Called my brother in South Florida and told him my plan to file D. His W works for the school I want to send S12. She also knows all about the public schools down there. Another fantastic thing in this sitch.
S12 had a basketball game tonight. XW sent me an email about it on Sunday. Sent me another email about it today. Then, when S12 called her and asked if she would come see him play, she said she thought his game was tomorrow night so she had to work tonight. She did not show at his game. I'm no longer surprised at all.
S12 had a good game but missed a shot and took it hard. I focused on him and talked with him. He felt better but still went to bed unhappy about everything.
I felt some sadness this morning. Filing for D is not what I wanted when I came here. I don't know how this D thing works. I'm feel some fear that I'll be tied to where ever and how ever XW wants to live b/c I will not be away from my son.
Tomorrow I find out what I can do and if what I want for myself and S12 is possible I'll set this D in motion.
Today frustrated XW sent a text... "God HP. Why can't you just answer my questions?"
My answer is coming soon enough.
Me: 44 W: 45 S: 11 Married: 15 Together: 18 BD: 9/29/2014 OM discovered: 10/16/2014 I left her behind: 12/14/2014