I also haven't been posting on other threads purely because I've had so much advice from people close to me and W that I felt it was getting too hard to separate the good from the bad. I took what I felt was the good stuff and left the rest. I believe in the DB principles as I'm seeing them in action in my sitch. Don't get me wrong, there's no change in my WAW's plan to remain S and D at some point at the moment, and there may never be. What I do know is that I've felt better recently because I've applied the principles to my life.
Had a nice evening with my D15 tonight, went for a meal and to the cinema. My S13 didn't make it, he was ill today when I saw him so he went to bed early. I'm going to see if he wants to go fishing at the weekend. He started recently with his friends and is interested in it. I've been sea fishing before (which was a great lads weekend) but fishing in general has never been my thing. I really want to try and spend more time with him though so it's a good opportunity for that.
Back to playing football tomorrow evening after a year out injured. God help me!!
Barry.
Me 40 W 38 T 23 M 21 S21 S19 D16 S14 BD 19/12/2014 D mentioned 27/2/2015. I filed 08/04/2015, D Absolute 04/11/2015