I got up the gumption to show him the book, and to make an appointment for the BC thing..one less worry. So far he has shown no interest in the book, but at least he didn't say it was a stupid idea. I think I'll just leave him with it for now.
I've also decided to try to start calling him more at work during his lunch to "touch base" during the day. Maybe if he feels more connected at home, he will be more willing to help out? I'm making contact, but am safe from the sex advances that seem to come from my attempts to reach out to him.
