I hope I am doing this right. I know I have read about doing little things and monitor the results. I have been working to be a better husband and work on the things my wife said was missing in our marriage. She has seemed to like the little notes and nice comments I have been doing from time to time. I have graduated from small hugs to longer ones and a quick kiss at bed and when I leave. I think this is progress. But I keep reading about how everyone else is recommending to the newcomers to detach. It seems if I ignore her, things get worse. That is something she did not like before. Any advice?
Me:44 EXW 44 Wonderful Children M11, T14 BD 6/14 OM Confirmed Divorce Final 2/25/16 "It works if you work it!"
