Excellent. You'll see that MWD's approach is much closer to RobX's "let them go" than it is to Allen's "affair-busting" methods. DB/DR is all about working on yourself. Where RobX differs is that he advises the betrayed spouse to COMPLETELY stop fighting for the cheating spouse -- just the "Hey, I realize now that I deserve better, this isn't working for me" speech and tack. MWD advises to experiment with little forms of pursuit and monitor what the wayward spouse is receptive to.
