Good point, everyone, about simply not responding. In this case she directly asked me if I wanted to hear it. But I guess I only needed to say it once.
I have noticed a trend. She's told me about 3 guys now, all of them after the "relationship" ended. She's also somehow implied before and during them that she was not pursuing them. Of course she lied about the A for 6 months. But after the A was over, she calls me crying, telling me about it. During that call she said, "he broke up with me, be happy", implying that I should be happy that she is now single, or something. 2 weeks later she's dating someone new. Told me about him after that was over. Then tells me about this guy after it is over, or whatever it is.
It doesn't even really sting anymore to hear about new guys. If there was one, what's the difference with 2? 3? 50? She's not my W anymore.
Me 38, WAW 30 D11 (former marriage) S2 T 8 years M 3 years BD 8/20/23 S 8/20/23