I lean toward Robx'sattitude of "Yeah well this sure isn't working for me!". It tends to take a lot of wind out of the sail of the WAW. It is not always best that she knows every feeling you have or what you may decide. I really believe the WW should have concerns about her H and he should not continue to give her assurances while she is in that mindset.
I have seen a few references to him on this site and there is a rob_x I see on a different forum (MB). Is he still active here? Is there a way to access his old comments/threads there. Searching only seems find a few newer references.