This need not be the end.

[Train]

Hey, Barry, just an FYI: When I started posting to others last year - just as Mozza said up there - I started gaining clarity in my own sitch.

We're all here for the very same reason: We had/are having marital problems. That qualifies us ALL to offer words of wisdom, and - as you know - people here really do love to hear different perspectives.

You have a unique perspective. Share it. It'll help your own confidence in this process a whole lot.