You're right, I did get great advice from 25. And your comments have really opened my eyes. Without realizing it, I am pressuring my wife.
I will speak to my therapist about this during my next appointment.
I can't tell you how much yours and everyone's support means to me.
Take care and thank you.
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15