I posted a few days ago, and honestly Im not sure where this is all going. Up until a week ago there was NO turning him away from a D, but now he is making small comments about our future. I have been doing a 180, no phone calls, no talk about R, OR OW which is hard, and letting him just do what he is gonna do. SO he calls me!
2 nights ago he talked about us moving, getting a new vehicle etc. Anyway last night I cooked dinner, he works until 6pm 2 hours away, so he gets home I went out to my car to get something and he was sitting in his car, weird to say the least. I just came back in, acted like nothing was strange about it, he walks in and kisses me on the forehead. THIS IS VERY NEW! YAY!
He said I had to finish a phone call, stupid me says yes I know who you were talking to. He says not her. whatever! I know he is and I shouldnt have said it but I did. He plugged in his phone and within 5 mins she had called two more times! GIve it a break woman! I just went to fix dinner, and I assumed he went to answer his phone but he SHUT IT OFF! YAY! He would have always just answered it before and went out to his car.
So we went to watch TV, I showed him where his meal was for today. He called today from work to say thank you for the food, it was really good. ANOTHER FIRST! He is going to see her tonight I think(trying hard not to get mad) but Im seeing good little things happening, and this weekend.
I think she is pushing way too hard, asked him yesterday about her "deadline" which was to file papers by the 1st. He told me she asked him about it, and I said well what did you tell her, he said he told her we(he and I) agreed for one more month. I let it go at that. He is here, we are going to therapy, and I think she is gonna annoy the heck out of him with the 10x day phone calls. So I just had to get it out, cause I know this is just the begginning, and maybe not even that. He could still leave. But he is treating me nicer than he has in years! Im hoping! Does it sound like he might be thinking of this family more than her? He does make small comments about how he would rather not just blow her off, and like I said talk about our future. How in the world do you not just take it and run. I know that would be against what Im trying to do here, which is make a better marriage. BUT ITS HARD! I want to go to him tell him I love him and give him a hug. But I dont!
