My overriding thought is that I want to R, but when I look at the real make-up of our M, particularly in recent years, I'm amazed. There are lots of areas where I think I'm settling for less than I should and I know W feels the same way. She as good as said those words. I've used this to start detaching. Like you said, our WAW don't want us now...maybe not ever again. I do believe in the DB process though and she has to travel her own journey as much as I do.
I must admit to being very slack in writing on other people's threads. I do read many of them but it's really only over the last few days where I've felt better placed to chip in with my thoughts on them. Up until now, I've been TOO involved in my own sitch. I read other people's (most of the people you've mentioned above) for insights into my own. I've felt like how can I offer someone marriage advise when my own is being flushed down the toilet. I will start to post more, thanks for the kickstart.
Me 40 W 38 T 23 M 21 S21 S19 D16 S14 BD 19/12/2014 D mentioned 27/2/2015. I filed 08/04/2015, D Absolute 04/11/2015
