Life 2.0 Pt 5

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Ugh.......lost my post. I hate when that happens.

I agree the MC needs to move on with this. I don't think she has gotten W's undivided attention, yet. Has she even explained to W what to expect with the withdrawals, etc.?
And how the feelings of the A affected the brain?

I suggest looking for ideas to use in the evenings, once behind bedroom doors. Don't try to make them romantic, just sweet or fun. Don't let her in on your surprise until it is time to spring into action. IDK..........things like spreading a picnic cloth and unpacking her very favorite snacks & drink. She may be a little suspicious b/c usually when men do these things, they are building the female up to have sex. Another idea that may take a little prep time is to plan a treasure hunt in the bedroom. Use sticky notes that have clues to the next place and the next.....until she finds the treasure. Maybe a Lockett with a baby picture of your daughter or something less expensive, but just as sweet to her. Prepare a bubble bath and you dress like some kind of sex slave. But be sure to tell her ahead of the bath time, that there will be no sex for her tonight........just pampering. After the bath, have lay on the bed with nothing but the towel. Use body lotions/oils and give her a full body massage. Remember, it is all about her, and unless she seduces you.......there can't be any sex. Use your imagine mixed with what you know she likes and come up with distractions during the time she would usually want to have a R talk. Can't do it every night, but maybe once a week?

I'm a little frustrated with the MC right now. We are spending too much time on the A. I keep wondering when we'll get to the point.

I like the picnic idea, and the massage. Yes right now something with too much sex pressure is out. I like the idea of putting it back on her to seduce me. If she wants Rzr, she has to come get Rzr

It's dawned on me that I've been with this woman for 21 years and I don't really have a clue about how to connect with her sexually. We used to be just horny college students so it wasn't too difficult. Once we got past that stage and got into real life, we didn't pay attention, and just did it when the spirit moved us.